So today first if all my folks and us headed "up the road" and saw
an Auntie of mine who was very close to my mother when I was little. It was lovely, we went into her house and had buns and coffee. When we were leaving her husband appeared, much older than her, at a guess he is 90 and a bit struggling generally but he was well enough to come and greet me and say tara.
Then we headed to my folks house where we had lunch then my father's older sister and hubby came to see us before very shakily leaving