Toby

Good lord. When I said "Help me" I actually meant Toby would say "Instruct me" and cook the whole dinner (which was lovely) by himself

And he agreed that next Tuesday I will be a bit busy what with financial reps coming so he'd better come and cook for me again on Monday

He seems pleased to be cooking for me as he needs to learn how to cook

And he seemed like a happier chappie again, yes there are some di*k*eads in his life but he seems to be getting above them